Make as if you are enthusiastic.Act enthusiastically! Act, make as if, pretend as if you are enthusiastic! Stand upright (in front of a mirror if possible), and smile, laugh, [Nevermind if it is difficult] clap your hands, jump up and down,Say, this is going to be wonderful day, Full of opportunities and success.
I m healthy and strong! I m a winner I m a child of God; He holds my hand; He makes the impossible possible, Thanks you God for all your love to me and to mankind! Today I m going to do something meaningful for somebody, I m happy! I can and will do it! I can! I can! Put a big, broad, honest to God smile on your face; throw back your shoulders; take a good deep breath; and Ang a snatch of song. If you can't sing,Whistle. If you can't whistle, hum. You'll quickly discover that it is physically impossible to remain blue or depressed while you are acting out the symptoms of being radiantly happy!
Dale Carnegie: By telling yourself what you like about what you are doing (do not matter how badly, there is always good in anything, even only a little) and pass on quickly from the part you don't like to part you do like. Then act enthusiastic; tell someone about it; let the know why it interest you. Enthusiasm is not merely an outward expression. It works from within. Enthusiasm is a born of a genuine liking for some phase of what you are doing.
The way to acquire enthusiasm is to believe in what you are doing and in yourself and to want to get something definite accomplished. Enthusiasm will follow as night follows the day.
Many people think that they where only in some other places, or had some other job, they'll be happy.
Many people think that they where only in some other places, or had some other job, they'll be happy.
Well, that is the doubtful. So get as much happiness as you can out of what you are doing and don't put off being happy until some day. (some people are always unhappy or always find a reason to be unhappy)
It isn't what you have or who you are or where you are or what you are that makes you happy, it is what you think about it.
For example; two people may be in the same place, doing same thing, both may have about an equal amount of money and prestige - and yet one may be miserable and the other happy.Why? Because of different mental attitude.
A different way of thinking. This day is too precious to be corroded by acid worries and regrets. Keep your chin high and your thoughts sparkling. Seize this day.
It will never come again. Flaming enthusiasm, backed up by horse sense and persistence, is the quality that most frequently makes for success.
Do you know that you can be happy by just making up your mind - and sticking to it - that you are going to be happy? Happiness depends upon your state of mind, not on upon your possession of your achievement.
Don't let what other say or does affect you to the degree that he or she is influencing your beliefs, have your own philosophy of your life . . . When you are feeling unhappy, take a walk . . . Think and look at the loveliness around yo. Listen to beautiful music. DO a deed for someone else. If you do this you can't be wholly unhappy at that moment.
You'll notice that a lot of space is used for this subject; The answer is easy.
HENRY FORT;
If one does not have right attitude it is almost impossible to succeed in whatever you are doing in your life.It doesn't make a difference whether the right attitude exist in our relationship with friends, families, partner or on our career or any other seriously important matter. Whatever happens in one's life depends simply to the result of our attitude. Attitude is Everything! What is Attitude? Simply our way of thinking, our habit of thought, of what is in our mind...It is life -giving aspect in all our doing!
HENRY FORT;
Used to say "What you think you are is what you are." A short statement but, seriously true, nobody can differ from it.
Just think about somebody thinking and saying: " I m failure ... I can't do it ..., I never pass this test ..., People don't like me ..., I m tired therefore I won't do it ..." I already worry ... If this is what a person really believes, it will be unquestionable true about him/her.
If you believes you are A failure, can you be successful or a winner? or "I can't do it" then you simply can't do it ..., or "I won't pass the test" you won't ..., or "People didn't like me",will they like you? ... " or if you believe you are tired, Will you have energy? It's possible to have negative and positive thoughts at the same time? No! Never! It is impossible to have destroying and winning thoughts at the same time.
The tragedy is that the negative, self destroying thought, always "wins" and not the positive winning thoughts. You are always what you think you are!
Just think about a Personal who has beaten up by rough people so much that he becomes a "cabbage ", lost the use of his body for ever and will never be able to help himself. The same thing can happen to our minds, attitude, and our self fulfillment if we allow negative soul-killing thoughts to have a upper hand, to be the rulers of our mind and life.So, what you think you are is what you are!
"I can't get ahead". No opportunities. No luck" ...,and more soul-killing thoughts. Can I changed it? Yes! Yes!
It is true that we all do not have the same abilities, intelligence, opportunities, but it can be done by people who are serious to improve their circumstances.
ACCEPT YOUR REAL LIMITATIONS and do What you can in your life. If you have a one leg you can't be a top soccer players. But there are other sports opportunities. If you overweight and unfit you also can not be a top soccer players. Some people give up and loose out.! But you can do something about your weight and fitness and becomes a reasonablygood player and enjoy the game if you really want to! Why not? Enjoy life? Enjoy an acceptable income? How? If you really want. Overcome your negative attitude!
DRAW UP YOUR PERSONAL BALANCE [GOOD/BAD] SHEET.
A balance sheet is a Comparison, for instance balancing out your assets [the Good] and lia6 [the Bad] or yor income or expenses. You determine the actual situation. What is really going on? More bad things than good things? Where do you stand in life?
What can you do about it? Start by listing all your assets, the good things you have against your liabilities, the bad things and discover whether you enjoy more of the good things than experience the bad. It helps to become positive, enthusiastic, and keener to live and to work towards financial independence. It assure better attitude by providing to yourself that there are more to be happy about than to cry about.
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